Is life hard for INFJ?

INFJs often have a hard time loving themselves, even though there's so much to the personality type to be loved. You may live with the trauma of being misunderstood and pushed to the side and live with a harsh inner critic.


What do INFJs struggle with most?

They have trouble dealing with conflict and a tendency to take even minor criticism personally. Combined with their stubborn streak, this can leave ISFJs feeling vulnerable and put upon, and they may resort to judgmental criticism themselves as a defense mechanism.

Why is it difficult to be an INFJ?

INFJs are so concerned about the feelings of others that we often hold ourselves back. We can be reluctant to open up or make the first move in a relationship because we're not sure if the other person really wants to listen to us or really cares about the issues and ideas that are so precious to us.


How to survive life as an INFJ?

6 Social Survival Tips for the INFJ Personality Type
  1. Find a group that suits your interests. ...
  2. Visualize your success ahead of time. ...
  3. Manage your empathy (your blessing and your curse). ...
  4. Don't let your high standards stop you from having a good time. ...
  5. Don't feel bad about your mind wandering off during conversation.


Are INFJ successful in life?

Some people are visionaries while others are down-to-earth problem solvers, but INFJs manage to straddle the line between both identities—and they usually succeed masterfully. INFJs are insightful thinkers who see through situations and people effectively and enjoy developing practical strategies for action.


THE HARD LIFE OF AN INFJ (& WHY IT’S WORTH IT)



Can INFJ see the future?

As far as being psychic, the INFJ can't read minds or literally see into someone's future. They rely on their advanced intuition to scan through loads of sensory information and grasp patterns and connections that give them clues about what may happen in the future.

What is greatest strength for INFJ?

Strengths that are typically associated with the INFJ personality type include...
  • Sensitivity to the needs of those around them.
  • Idealistic thinking that enables change.
  • Ability to connect deeply with other people.
  • Unwavering commitment to their values.
  • Desire to help better the lives of others.


What do INFJs do when stressed?

For the INFJ, stress can start out by making us more true-to-type. A stressed INFJ might disappear from the world for a while and ignore texts, phone calls, and responsibilities. After a while, they might call up a good friend and vent about their struggles and fears.


What makes an INFJ unhappy?

Stressed or unhappy INFJs are often tired of trying to make people feel good. They stop caring what people think and about “blending in” socially. In fact, they may feel a sense of relief in laying out criticisms, nitpicking other people's statements, or even starting a debate over the logic of something.

Can an INFJ ever be happy?

Thanks to their Introverted Intuition function, they excel at predicting what people will do, and they easily “see behind the curtain” in any given situation. Many INFJs find that sharing their insights through writing, counseling, or leadership makes them happy.

Why INFJ are so special?

INFJs have deeply held beliefs and the ability to act decisively to get what they want. Helper: While they are introverted by nature, people with an INFJ personality type can form strong, meaningful connections with other people. They enjoy helping others, but they also need time and space to recharge.


How serious are INFJ?

Namely, INFJs are far less serious inwardly than they appear outwardly (ENFJs, whose dominant function is a Judging function, are characteristically more serious). INFJs' inner world is well described as playful, imaginative, colorful, mischievous, and daring.

What hurts an INFJ?

INFJs are easily rattled, anxious and stressed when they have too much to do in a short space of time, when they aren't given time to reflect on problems or when someone is watching them.

Do INFJ get frustrated easily?

Because INFJs are so naturally aware of harmony levels and emotional needs, they are irritated by people who seem tactless, rude, mean-spirited, troll-ish, or unnecessarily disruptive. In situations where someone is corrupting the emotional atmosphere for their own selfish gains, an INFJ can become severely angered.


What are INFJs insecure about?

INFJs feel insecure when they receive criticism or are faced with conflict or confrontation. They want to live in a harmonious atmosphere as much as possible, and they tend to take criticism very personally as children. SIDE-NOTE: INJs can enjoy sports, as any type can.

What type do INFJs not get along with?

Low Compatibility: ISTJ, ESTJ, ENFP, INFP.

Who are INFJ best friends?

In my experience as an INFJ, extroverted types that I get along well with include the following:
  • ENFP (“The Inspirer”)
  • ENFJ (“The Giver”)
  • INTJ (“The Scientist”)
  • INFP (“The Idealist”)
  • INTP (“The Logician”)


What happens when an INFJ is angry?

If you're an INFJ, you suppress your anger. “The Counselor” type will avoid addressing their feelings of frustration because they hate conflict, and the idea of confronting someone might break them out in hives.

How do INFJ deal with sadness?

INFJ: How to Deal With Negative Emotions
  1. Whatever emotion you feel, be it anger, sadness, or disappointment, find a healthy way to express it. ...
  2. Get clear on who the feelings belong to — and when they're not yours, ask them to leave. ...
  3. Make meditation your habit (just five minutes of deep breathing a day).


How do INFJs deal with pain?

It's important for INFJs to understand that they can have compassion toward themselves while also acknowledging their own struggles. INFJs should make a conscious effort to view and treat themselves in the same way they view and treat their loved ones when they experience pain — with compassion and understanding.


Are INFJs more prone to anxiety?

As the "Counselor" archetype of Myers Briggs personality theory, they are deeply empathetic and often understand others better than they understand themselves. They work hard for the common good, commit, and follow through. And they are perhaps more likely than any other personality type to experience anxiety.

Are INFJs good at arguing?

INFJs are likely to argue in defense of someone they care about or a value that is important to them. They are less likely to argue about technical details or impersonal facts. Because they are so conflict-averse they will rarely instigate arguments unless it is over a value that has been violated in some way.

What superpower would INFJs have?

INFJs have an uncanny ability to read people and events, and very often, we can predict what will happen. We're not always right, but generally we hit the mark. How do we do this? We notice patterns in human behavior, we read body language well, and we pay attention to how people interact.


What are INFJs talented at?

INFJs are thoughtful nurturers with a strong sense of personal integrity and a drive to help others realize their potential. Creative and dedicated, they have a talent for helping others with original solutions to their personal challenges.

What do INFJs do for fun?

Many INFJs find that they enjoy playing games (video games, board games, etc.) either with small groups of friends or on their own. INFJs often enjoy cooperative, RPG, or storytelling games where the emphasis is less on competition and more on engaging with others or participating in a narrative.